Sorry to hear your plight. I feel for you cause I know how it's like having nimrods getting in the way of love >>... Some people are overly protective (or think they're being protective), where they think they're solving a problem, but all they really are doing is rearanging 1 problem into another.. The best way to help with this is to "play nice" with her folks, & show your worth. Show her folks that you really do care about their daughter.
But just in case, if it doesn't work out, it's better to move on, cause there are many girls out there. (That saying about "true love conquers all" is a crock of s***

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