Right...ok here goes....

[Laura]

Ok, i have been thinking about posting this for a while now and i couldn't post it on my board as some of my friends from school might read it or even worse my mum might. There is this guy at school, some of you may already have heard a bit about him as i talk about him 24/7. i have liked him for soooo feckin long now its driving me crazy, and this is really unusual for me as i like guys for about a week and then change my mind. So anyway i had liked him for a long time and he seemed to like me so i asked him out and his bitch of a ex girlfriend came up to me, hugged me and said "oh sorry laura, tom said no, really shame huh?"

So after that i didn't like him, then after that at a party he hung around me all night and hugged me constantly, ignored all my friends and was just staring and flirting with me all night. (He even hugged me infront of his mum when she was right behind me, that is a big deal for our age.) So obviously i liked him again after that party. So i had him round my house a few times and i invited him round my friends house along with her boyfriend. Tom came with me round her house although he is petrified of her dog. We stuck together all day and night, we were virtually inseperable. I phoned him up and asked him to come over he told me he would phone me back. He phoned about 5 people and left messages with them all to get in touch with me (god that boy tries so hard).

Then after a week i made myself not like him again as i realised he doesn't like me and it is never going to work. Then i listened to my messages on my phone and just hearing his voice again made me fall deeply inlove. I was talking to my friend about him last night and she said "maybe you see some special in him, maybe you love the mystery" And that all got me thinking and now i am even more messed up than ever and working my way to the grave. I can't say a sentence without mentioning his name. I am going crazy!!!!!

Laura xx

[Lissa32]

You said his EX came up to you and said he said no? How would she know? She sounds like a b***h!!

Men are funny when it comes to admitting their feelings. If this guy is interested, play it cool for a while and act like you don't give a damn what he does. Ignoring them when they know you liked them before drives them nuts, wondering if you've lost interest.

Always remember, there are other fish in the sea! If this guy is just playing you, hon, he's not worth your time! You're too good for him! I've been played before and the guy who does that is beyond contempt! But, play it cool for a while and see what he does.

Let us know how things are, sweetie!

[Cymrulady]

I agree with Lissa. You really shouldn't let hism get away with treating you badly. I mean, OK, you like him but you have to remember one important point. No relationship should be based on one-sided attraction. You can't MAKE someone like you, no matter how much you want it to happen. It's hard sometimes to let go but you mustn't let yourself be used. Lifes too short for problems like these and you're too young to be tieing yourself in knots about this. Just relax a bit, step back and you'll see thing in a clearer light.

[gummie_bare86]

yeah, I hope it all goes well...

That kinda sounds like my situation at the moment... But it didn't end well... but hey, I'll live and I'm sure that you'll find someone heaps awsome for you!

[Laura]

thanks for all your support, i will get over him someday and hopefully it will be soon. I am slowly getting there.

Laura xx

[Cymrulady]

Glad to hear you're feeling a little bit better. Keep going, it gets easier - promise!